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Pros of Mediating Shared Parental Responsibility vs. Litigating Under Florida Law

by Attorney Mediator Beth Reineke

In the realm of family law, particularly in matters related to shared parental responsibility, couples often find themselves at a crossroads — should they choose mediation or opt for litigation? This decision holds significant implications for the well-being of all parties involved, especially the children.

As an experienced Tampa Bay family law attorney and Supreme Court Certified Florida Divorce Mediator with over 30 years in the field, Beth Reineke has witnessed firsthand the benefits of mediating shared parental responsibility versus litigating it under Florida law.

Exploring the advantages of mediation and shedding light on how it can serve as a more constructive approach for families navigating these complex situations is what Reineke Mediations does.

Contact Beth Reineke to discuss whether your Florida co-parenting negotiation needs are a good fit for mediation or another form of alternative dispute resolution during a free phone consultation.

What are Shared Parental Responsibilities in Florida?

Before delving into the pros of mediation and its comparison with litigation, it’s essential to understand the concept of shared parental responsibility in the context of Florida law. Shared parental responsibility emphasizes the involvement of both parents in making major decisions for their children, such as those related to education, healthcare, and religious upbringing. It also encourages ongoing communication and cooperation between parents for the well-being of their children.

Mediation: A Collaborative Approach

• Preserving Relationships: Mediation fosters an environment of collaboration rather than confrontation. As a mediator, I have found that when parents are given the opportunity to communicate openly and work together to find solutions, the chances of maintaining a functional co-parenting relationship are significantly higher.
• Child-Centric Solutions: Mediation centers around the best interests of the children. During mediation sessions, parents can craft customized parenting plans that align with their unique family dynamics and the needs of their children. This level of personalization is often not possible in a courtroom setting.
• Cost-Effective: Litigation can quickly become financially burdensome due to attorney fees, court costs, and other related expenses. Mediation offers a more cost-effective alternative, allowing couples to allocate resources towards their children’s well-being rather than protracted legal battles.
• Time-Efficient: Court proceedings can be time-consuming and lead to prolonged uncertainty for families. Mediation, on the other hand, can expedite the resolution process, providing parents and children with much-needed stability sooner.
• Confidentiality: Mediation sessions are private and confidential, allowing parents to address sensitive matters without the fear of public exposure. This can be particularly advantageous when discussing personal or potentially contentious topics.

Litigation: A Contested Path

• Adversarial Nature: Litigation inherently involves two opposing sides presenting their arguments to a judge. This adversarial approach can escalate tensions and hinder effective communication, which is crucial in shared parental responsibility cases.
• Limited Control: In litigation, the final decision rests with the judge. This lack of control over the outcome can lead to dissatisfaction and frustration for both parties, as well as potential adverse impacts on the children’s well-being.
• Emotional Toll: Courtroom battles can be emotionally draining for all involved, including the children. The stress and strain of litigation can further strain already fragile relationships.
• Public Record: Court proceedings are a matter of public record, which means personal and sensitive information discussed in the courtroom is accessible to the public. This lack of privacy can be uncomfortable for families seeking to keep their personal matters confidential.

Choosing mediation over litigation for resolving co-parenting disputes facilitates effective communication, cooperation, and the development of mutually agreeable shared parenting solutions by providing a structured and facilitated environment for parents to communicate openly and effectively.

See how Beth Reineke can put her three decades of family law and mediation experience to work for you to encourage respectful dialogue, help reduce misunderstandings and conflicts, and create a customized parenting plan that reflects your situation’s specific circumstances and dynamics.

What is the Advantage of Shared Parenting Mediation in Florida

Mediating shared parental responsibility provides families with a collaborative and child-centric approach that addresses their unique needs and concerns. As a litigation attorney and now as a mediator, Beth Reineke has witnessed how mediation empowers parents to actively participate in shaping their children’s future and allows them to reach solutions that are more likely to endure the test of time. While litigation might be necessary in certain cases, it’s crucial for couples to consider the benefits of mediation before embarking on a potentially contentious legal journey.

The decision between mediating shared parental responsibility and litigating it under Florida law can have far-reaching consequences for families. As an experienced mediator, Beth Reineke encourages couples to explore pre-suit mediation as an option to foster cooperation, preserve relationships, and prioritize the best interests of their children. By doing so, parents can lay the groundwork for a harmonious co-parenting journey even after the legal matters are resolved.

Attorney Beth Reineke is a Florida Supreme Court Certified Divorce Mediator. Drawing on more than 30 years of experience litigating, mediating, and settling co-parenting cases in the Tampa Bay Area, she conducts virtual and in-person pre-suit mediations and post-filing mediations for families in Hillsborough, Pinellas, and Pasco Counties and provides free phone consultations for Florida parents.